“You never know how strong you are until strong is the only choice you have” Anonymous
Cleft Friends is the only organisation in South Africa that does what it does…offering support to parents from the perspective of a lived experience rather than the expert view that other NGOs often approach helping. We are mothers who speak only from experience. We encourage new moms to celebrate their babies as a baby first by bonding with them through skin to skin contact, kissing and cuddling them and affirming them in every way possible. After this we tackle the challenges faced with *the cleft journey. We take the time to listen, and then empower moms to ask the medical professionals specific questions that will alleviate any anxiety or clear any misunderstanding of information about their child’s diagnosis. Our strength is attributed to the support of medical professionals both in private and government hospitals, who regularly refer patients to us.
Improving lives by empowering, advocating & educating all South African’s affected by cleft lip and palate.
Co-Founder & National Coordinator
The day Heléna’s son was born and diagnosed with a cleft palate changed her life. She had no idea what a cleft lip and palate was, and as she progressed on *the cleft journey she realised this is common of most people. She was overwhelmed and it took time to process what the diagnosis meant and what the future held for her baby boy, Joel. She had to grieve for the idea she had about her first child and she had to embrace the reality that involved her new born needing plastic surgery when he was 6 months old and having to feed him with a special needs bottle. She realised that other parents were experiencing similar emotions and co-founded a South African cleft lip and palate parent support group called Cleft Friends. Through her work in Cleft Friends her team and her have helped more than 400 parents and children affected by cleft, trained 20 volunteer support mothers, pioneered an innovative and sustainable model nationally and compiled a parent guide that details *the cleft journey from a parents perspective.
- 2016: Business Women’s Association (BWA) Regional Business Achievers Award(RBAA) 2016, Social Entrepeneur Category – Finalist
- 2013: The Herald GM Citizen of the Year – Finalist
- 2012: Algoa Bay Rotary Club’s “Paul Harris” award
Lynette is a counselling psychologist based in Port Elizabeth. She began her private practice in 2001, after completing her internship at Hunterscraig Private Psychiatric Hospital. She has been involved with Smile Foundation for several years as a Psychologist in the Port Elizabeth region. In her private practice, she has worked extensively with women’s mental health issues. She does work with the couples undergoing infertility issues and also works with parents of premature babies, helping them cope to the challenges in the NICU. Her work also involves working with women experiencing Post-Partum Distress and Anxiety and was the Port Elizabeth contact for the Postnatal Depression and Anxiety Group of South Africa (PNDSA) till it closed a few years ago. However, she has continued to work with new mothers adjusting to motherhood. She is a mother and a proud grandmother.
Cleft Friends Support Moms
- Biance de Villers (Port Elizabeth, Uitenhage & Despatch)
- Namko Runu (Grahamstown & East London)
- Jennilee Nel (Port Elizabeth)
- Bernadette Swartz (Jeffrey’s Bay)
- Christelle van Huyssteen (Humansdorp)
- Michelle Kingwill (Graaff Reinet)
- Nelisa Xotyeni (East London)
- Karen Kriek (Randburg)
- Sylvia Mchunu (Germiston)
- Gloria Mmutle (Orange Farm)
- Jeanette Ayre (Benoni)
- Megan Pennefather (Gillet)
- Julie Marquet-Maurel (Hillcrest)
- Angela Petticrew (Malvern)
- Megan Sampson (Belhar)
- Monique Meyer (Ottery)
- Taryn Dickenson (Parow)
- Patricia Fulton (Witbank)
National Support for anyone born with a cleft
Madge Blignaut (Port Elizabeth)
Co-FounderMadge was born with a unilateral cleft of the lip and soft palate at a time when not a lot of support and information was available to her parents. She underwent multiple operations and had to deal with bullying as a young girl growing up with a cleft. This led to emotional trauma and low self-esteem as a young woman. Despite life’s setbacks, leaning of her faith in God and discovering that part of God’s purpose for her life is to share her story. She now readily speaks at schools and organisations encouraging not just those born with a cleft but all young people to embrace their differences.
Madge together with her friend Helena, whose little boy was born with a cleft, decided to start Cleft Friends. At that time there was no support in South Africa for parents of and children born with a cleft.
Cleft Friends is a project of the Smile Foundation
Cleft Friends is a project of the Smile Foundation, 063-498-NPO.
We’re About Putting Smiles on the Faces of Children in South Africa!
The Smile Foundation is a South African NGO that assists children with any type of facial abnormality, to receive free corrective Plastic and Reconstructive surgery within South Africa. We help children who suffer from treatable facial deformities such as cleft lip and palate, burn victims, moebius syndrome (facial paralysis) and other conditions.
We are currently based in 7 Academic Hospitals around South Africa. We are investing in the medical teams we work with, through a Skills Development programme, and we assist the hospitals by purchasing equipment for use by the Department of Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery.
To date, we have changed over 1000 lives.
Our Chief Patron Nelson Mandela’s wish was for us to assist as many children around South Africa as possible.
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